Today, I will talk about the impact of migration and historical events that my family faced, both of my grandfathers are brothers. My mother and my father are cousins. They grew up in the same house in Afghanistan , which means that they have the same history. Back in the time, both of my grandfathers were rich. They were the most well known and respected people among their relatives. They had lots property in their names. My father used to work for the government.
In my family, only the elder son was allowed to work. The reason is that my father’s and two uncle’s incomes were enough to feed the family. In my family, man and women had the same rights before marriage such as both were able to go to college. After marriage, both of them were not able to continue their studies in university. The reason was that both of them had new responsibilities. Women must stay at home by taking care of children and man must go out to work. The first war which star in 1070 caused a major change in my country by destroying everything. There was no property left for my family since everything was burnt and nothing was left to us. My grandfathers refused to move into another country since they did not want to leave their hometown. My father decided to leave my country since he was afraid that something would happen to his children.
After, we moved into a city of Pakistan which is called Karachi. We lived there as new immigrants. We didn’t know anything about the city of Karachi such as language, people, culture and etc. We had nothing with us and we started from the beginning. It was a major turn in our lives since our lifestyle changed from being in a rich community into a poor community. For a year, everything in our house was limited. For example, we used to live in one room and we were seven people. It was the hardest time which we ever faced in our lives. The reason was that we did not know anyone who could we ask for a help. My father and mother were not able to work since the language was new for us. It took time for my family to learn the new language. After one year and a half, my mother found a job as a cleaner in people’s houses. The good impact that war had in my family history was that it gives a chance for my mother to work outside of the house for the first time. The reason was that my mother wanted to help my father by earning money for us. It was easy for my mother to find a job since her job was cleaning houses. On the other hand, it was difficult for my father to find a job. The reason for it was that in Karachi there were limited jobs for man and they must be able to talk the original language which is called Urdu. There was not any public school in Karachi only private and we could not afford to go to it.
Five years after, we decided again to shift to a new city which is called Rawalpindi. The reason was that there was not enough work for people. My mother got a better offer of a job as a cleaner in another country with a better salary. My mother’s income was not enough to feed my family. As well, we heard that in Pakistan there are more jobs for men and the condition of life is better. After, we choose to shift into Pakistan, where people talk the same language as Karachi. Both countries had the same values with which we were familiar, such the language, cultural tradition and etc. In Pakistan, my father got work as a store keeper. My mother went to her job of cleaning one family’s house who was rich and gave a better salary to my mother. Slowly, the condition of our house was getting better than before. For example, we could afford to get two-bedrooms. As well, my parents were able to pay the fees of our school for all of us. Everything was going well as the way we wanted it to go. Until, one night when a female Prime Minister of Pakistan that was named Benazir Bhutto was killed by someone unknown during her election campaign. On that night, everyone was angry and sad about her death and they started hitting people and destroying store burning everything in the street. For two days, there was a fight going on and no one was able to get out of their houses. Everything was closed such as food stores, school and etc. After her death, the condition of Pakistan changed and was getting worse day by day. It was difficult for my family to stay in Pakistan since it was not safe for us. There were new laws which were created for the immigrants in Pakistan.
Eventually, parents decide to leave Pakistan. My father wanted to move into a country which would be safe for us for the rest of our lives. My mother’s uncle filed a form for us to come to Canada. Now, I am glad that I am in a safe country where is no war and I do not need to worry about anything.